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I need to start by telling myself a different story about myself - I am the director, of my own life, and I just realized (nearly 34 years in) that I don’t want a shit story when it all comes to an end. I want to stop using the crutches that say “this is just who I am” or, “I just am not the kind of person for that” or, “I could never”. What I truly want is for myself to get out of my own damn way. It can be a lot of sometimes all piled up over time. Improved Kelsi will try things she thinks she’s going to be bloody terrible at.īecause “ if nothing changes, nothing changes” doesn’t have to be all or nothing. What sort of life would that give me? What sort of story will I have if I just let life happen to me without actually directing anything on my own? I don’t want to be the same person I have always been. I don’t do things I think I’ll be terrible at. Let me paint a picture for you, if I may. Maybe that change isn’t a physical thing that you add to your day, or quit doing, but instead, maybe it’s just changing the stories you tell yourself about yourself SO THAT YOU CAN ACT AND DO DIFFERENTLY.īecause if nothing changes, nothing changes. That simple switch has been a GAME CHANGER.īecause, in case you haven’t been listing - if nothing changes, nothing changes. To test it, I decided that instead of identifying solely with being the type of person who starts a lot and finishes very little - I’d identify with being the type of person who can do things. Sure, nothing will change because I am who I am - but what if I change who I think I am and actually start to believe that I could be different?

I could keep saying that this is who I am and this is how I approach goals and this is how I attack them and evidently fail at some point. So, how do I set goals if I don’t know what I’m setting them for and if I don’t really trust that I’ll do anything about them? I have trouble getting started (could be anything), and then once I’m started, I often have a bit of trouble keeping going. I didn’t know what I wanted.įrankly, I still don’t really have any idea what I’m doing. If you don’t, like I had not for the better part of the last few weeks, you can start to feel like you’re not doing something right. She will remind herself daily of her goals and in doing so, remind you of yours too if you’ve got them. She’s driven and inspired and the sort of person who will go for what she wants (queue a bit of jealousy). It’s January and I know the woman has some goals (yes, I just called my early thirties wife a woman….at what age does one become a woman in conversation, out of curiosity….) and shes ferociously going to go after them, because that’s who she is. It’s a nuisance because its the truth…and sometimes the truth is hard to swallow. Hearing this over and over has only been a nuisance because I sort of am drawn towards the idea of things changing without having to do the work - not because shes wrong, or annoying - but because sometimes it would be nice to get the result without the effort. Of course, nothing changes if nothing changes - why must we keep saying it? Why state the obvious? It’s a little bit of a nuisance, as you may imagine.

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She will argue that she has said it before the crack of 2023, and she's right - it's just been repetitive since we woke up on January 1st. My wife, in the last twenty-odd days of 2023 has been saying If nothing changes, nothing changes almost without noticing. A healthy repetitive, especially if you’re trying your damnedest to become a bit better than you were yesterday, and so on (and so on). Not repetitively to the point of annoyance bringing you back to a time when your favourite Eminem CD skips while driving down the highway, but repetitive in the way where I’m pretty sure she was just trying to get her point across - to herself first, and then to others - which obviously includes me whether I like it or not. Written by my amazing wife (and copywriter), Kelsi: